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   ۼ   ojibang       2016-03-23
   
  Being a mother is too difficult.
When I got pregnant, I was very tough for having morning sickness.
I blacked out for a few minutes, when I gave birth to the baby boy.
I couldn't sleep deeply because of breast-feeding for awhile.
Time goes by and my kids are also growing.
They are forming their thought and they can do many things by themselves.
I'd like to say what mother needs in(?) infant care.
I know it sounds funny because my kids are still so young.*^^*

Anyway..

First of all, mom keeps her composure. And furthermore we need patience.
Children also want to do something that they can do it.
Nowadays my daughter wants to wear underpants, socks and shoes.
She has socks upside down and shoes in the wrong feet.
She wants to wash hands and brush teeth alone so she always are wet.
Maybe I could do it faster than she does but I can't live instead of her.
So I should wait till she can do well with taking time.

Sometimes they whine or ask for the impossible. It's useless to blame child
at the time. I should keep cool and wait until they regain their countenance.
However I am normally very upset with them. It's very hard to endure this time for me. Children naturally learn how to control anger though parents. I will try to behave with discernment.

In the next place, mom should do the same.
When they act alike, reaction is also same. We ought to scold at the same case but I think I do wrong. Children are also confused and the authority of mother could diminish. I believe that I'm growing in experience and wisdom. I 'm also struggling to keep consistent attitude.

Lastly, mother should find the self-identity and love me.
Children call me, "mom".
Kids' friends call me, " ܸ or "̸
Their parents and teachers call me, " s mother "
I think I'm losing myself.
We should find the identity nevertheless they do.
If I find me who I am and love me, kids also accept me by a mom and a person
and learn to love themselves.
I think a man who doesn't love himself loves no one.

Above this, maybe a mother needs lots of conditions.
However love covers the other terms.
Parents love their children without conditions.
I think it's enough.
Love more and more now and express how love they are.
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